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Confidence with women doesn’t come naturally to all guys. For some, having confidence face-to-face with anybody is a struggle. With a little work and preparation, you can learn how to exude confidence as a man and present yourself as someone who attracts and demands respect. It’s the first step to making both the professional and personal connections you want to create.
There is no single characteristic that leads to having more confidence with women. If it were that easy, everyone would do it.
Instead, the impression you create is based on a variety of factors, many of which you can take control of. When you take control of that perception, you start to build confidence because you are taking an active hand in how you’re seen. You are very much in charge, and here’s where to start:
Maintain Personal Grooming - Being physically ready for social situations is important. Make sure you’re clean, neat, and well groomed. Your skin should be healthy ,hair well-kept, and nails trimmed. Choose an invigorating scent that doesn’t overpower your own naturally masculine smell.
Be Prepared - Be ready for the environment you’re meeting in. Whether it’s a presentation at the office or a blind date your friend set you up with at the new French restaurant, make sure you’re comfortable with where you’ll be and what you’ll likely need to know, from the basics of the cuisine to budget reports. Be ready to be authentic and honest, because that creates trust and boosts your confidence with women.
Watch Your Body Language -A confident man’s body language says, “I see you, I acknowledge you, and I am ready to interact with you on a one-to-one basis.” Turn towards the person or people you’re talking to, and look them in the eye. Avoid crossing your arms, which can make you seem closed off to the conversation. The receptiveness will help you maintain your confidence.
Speak Confidently -When you’re caught off-guard or nervous, it is easy to let filler words such as “like”, “uh”, and “um” slip into your speech. Speak plainly, authoritatively, and sound sure of yourself. Keep your voice measured and controlled. If you aren’t a natural baritone, don’t worry about lowering your pitch; just make sure it’s controlled if you want to have more confidence with women.
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Once you’ve done everything you can to set yourself up for success, it’s time to let go of what you can’t control. Perhaps the other person is lacking in confidence or having an off day. Maybe you took all the right steps only to bump into someone carrying a glass of wine. You can’t prepare for every possibility, and you can’t control what’s going on in someone else’s life. Just relax and remember you’re all there for a reason and you’ve done your best to make a solid first impression.
Even if you’re not feeling 100% confident, that shouldn’t stop you from acting like it. Get into the headspace you need to show the confident characteristics you’ve prepared yourself to display. As you settle into the interaction, realizing things are actually going pretty well, your confidence will grow and no one will even know if you weren’t feeling on top of your game in the beginning. You got this!
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